Be your own girl crush | 5 ways to improve self esteem

Hey girlfriend, yes YOU, the awesome queen you see when you look in the mirror! we look back at ourselves and always jump straight to the the flaws! Telling ourselves that we would be perfect if our belly was flatter, or if we had a better smile, thicker eyebrows, the list goes on. Why do why idolize other people and wish we could have what they have. Why do we tell ourselves that we are not good enough, when in reality we are better that what we believe. There is only one way to get our brains to focus on whats actually important; and that is to be your own girl crush. Stop telling yourself you’re not pretty, you’re not confident and you’re not worthy! YOU ARE! Here are my top 5 ways to improve your self esteem and blossom into the butterfly you have been waiting to become!

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5 ways to improve self esteem

1. Accept the compliments because you deserve them! In a world full of fake people and FAKE NEWS, We can be so hard on ourselves sometimes. Not everyone who compliments you has a hidden agenda!

It’s perfectly okay to be loved, adored , to be told you’re a queen, because thats exactly what you are!

2. Remind yourself that you are worth it by taking care of your body. If you want to know how to develop self love , then it has to start with your body. There are so many ways to pamper your body such as going to the gym, or eating healthier.

Treat your body like a temple and have a calming soak in the tub! Lay back and throw on a face-mask, then kick your feet up for ultimate relaxation!

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How to develop self love

3. Have a positive mindset because it all stems from the brain! Instead of looking at something and saying I don’t think i can achieve this, Say “WHEN I ACHIEVE THIS”. Stay positive with your thoughts, what you want to become in life and you will get there. If you put positive vibes out into the universe, then it will come back to positively!

4. Eliminate the negativity, which includes negative people! If there are people in your life who don’t believe in your goals, your vision or YOU. Then pistol whip them out of your life because nobody needs them bringing you down! How can you truly grow or blossom when there is someone holding you back! YOU have to advocate for YOU aka be your own girl crush.

5. Get yourself a squad who cares! I am still working on this one, I have a small squad … aka my bae and my sis lol . BUT sometimes thats all you need! Someone who loves you and supports you but will not hesitate to tell you if you need to improve because they always have your best interest in mind!

So thats it, 5 ways to improve your self esteem! Sending a little love and motivation your way!

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Remember its your responsibility to always leave a mark on this world someway or another. You have to promote self love , positivity and empowerment. Show the world what you are made of and just be the best you, you can be! BE YOUR OWN GIRL CRUSH

Author: Abbigayle Warner

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26 Comments

  1. May 6, 2019 / 2:14 pm

    This year I’ve really been trying to improve my confidence, and these tips are great! I really have a hard time accepting compliments — love the reminder that it’s okay to be loved and adored.

  2. May 6, 2019 / 2:35 pm

    First! You’re so beautiful! Second! Thanks for the tips having a strong self esteem is very important, definitely in today’s world. Third! I love what you said about “It’s your responsibility to leave a mark on this world someway or another.

  3. May 6, 2019 / 5:22 pm

    This is so important, I think. I was just discussing body image and self perception with someone else, especially pertaining to helping young girls. My oldest daughter is sixteen and has been struggling with having confidence in herself and appreciating the uniqueness of her own character and beauty. So, we’ve been working with her on that – trying to help her see just how beautiful she is, inside and out. I think the idea of developing self-love is at the heart of this and I will take these points you make here and try to incorporate these ideas into a self-care regimen that both I and my daughters can use daily. Thank you for posting this. Be well!

  4. May 6, 2019 / 5:34 pm

    I must say that I was lucky enough to have encouraged me to move these steps and today I am proud of my esteem!

  5. May 6, 2019 / 5:51 pm

    Love it, love it, LOVE it! I think we all need to remember to be our own best friends. And it seems like we NEVER remember that!

  6. May 6, 2019 / 6:09 pm

    Yes we all need to remember this from time to time. We can be our own biggest obstacle at times so it is so important to realize that we are enough!

  7. May 6, 2019 / 9:50 pm

    Love this post, I am terrible at accepting compliments. I know I need to get better at this.

  8. May 6, 2019 / 10:51 pm

    What an uplifting and practical read ❤️??. Also digging that pantsuit ?

  9. May 7, 2019 / 3:36 am

    I preach to my girlfriends, my daughter, my students everything that you have said here. But can I take my own advice? Heck, no. I need to get on this.

  10. May 7, 2019 / 12:47 pm

    I love this post, such awesome tips! I definitely need to work on positivity and eliminating negativity. You look gorgeous in that jumpsuit too girl!
    Soph – https://sophhearts.com x

  11. May 7, 2019 / 5:16 pm

    Thanks for sharing your useful tips to improve self-esteem. Travel helps me a lot in this regard to uplift my mind.

  12. May 7, 2019 / 8:03 pm

    These are some really helpful tips. I really need to try to accept compliments more and not shrug them off.

  13. May 7, 2019 / 9:11 pm

    Yes, to all of this!! I recently started listening to guided meditation and during one, I had to repeat these positive affirmations and it started to make me cry! Just saying nice things about myself made me really sad and uncomfortable and I realized, I really need to work on my self-esteem. Wonderful post!

  14. Claire Lee
    May 7, 2019 / 11:38 pm

    I love this post! Everything is so true and I am glad I reminded myself by reading this 🙂

  15. May 8, 2019 / 12:22 am

    My main rules are: Love yourself! Stop comparing yourself to others! Stop second guessing yourself! Beautiful post you shared and I hope we girls will grow to be more confident in ourselves! x

  16. May 8, 2019 / 1:55 am

    It’s so important to put yourself first once and while and remember your worth. These are great steps to take in regaining confidence. Love it!

  17. May 8, 2019 / 2:54 am

    love this post! i am horrible at receiving compiments

  18. Rosey
    May 8, 2019 / 11:29 am

    Eliminating the negativity is so important. This is a great message for all of us to soak in.

  19. Amy
    May 8, 2019 / 12:49 pm

    This is a great post to ponder. I love that topic. It shows how self esteem formed us in our daily living.

  20. May 8, 2019 / 5:30 pm

    It’s definitely a mindset! I have trouble staying positive all the time, how do you do it?

  21. May 8, 2019 / 6:31 pm

    These are great tips…But girl I so love your little purse.

  22. May 8, 2019 / 8:05 pm

    Thank you for encouraging and reminding the importance of self-confidence. I love you and your post.

  23. May 8, 2019 / 11:30 pm

    Thanks for this inspiring list, felt the energy during my read, gonna practising some of them in my life, yes, wanna continue having great self esteem 😀 cheers, siennylovesdrawing

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